Love Notes (Joe D' Mango) -- Daan na at makiiyak

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mga broken hearted peeps..

nakakita ako ng love notes on youtube.

sa mga naghahanap ng advice..daan lang kayo dito. at makinig, manuod at magmumuni muni.

maghingi ng payo sa mga kafnets or kung gusto niyo umiyak.

tambay lang dito.


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hayz... ang cute aman nito!

[equinox10]

Dear Joe,

My name is Tess and I'm 23 years old. I came back to our country to look for a job after spending my college years in California. Not that there were no job opportunities there but I felt more at ease working with my fellow Filipinos.

Fortunately, I landed a job in a consulting firm here in Manila. Being a newcomer and tagged as the "new employee from the States," at first, I found it hard to adjust to my environment. Thanks to Joan, I easily found my place among them. We belonged to the same department and she sort of kept me under her wing. As days went by, our friendship grew stronger. I found in her the sister I have been longing for and vice versa. Even her family treated me as one of them which made my loneliness for my own family whom i left in the States almost bearable.

Everything went smoothly until the time I was sent by our company to the US for a three-week training. Although I was sad to leave Joan Behind, I was looking forward to being with my family again. I stayed there for one month, having asked the company to grant me a one-week vacation. When i came back, Joan was different.She was more energetic and in a state of euphoria. Since we never did correspond, I was at a loss. But the symptoms were clear-- Joan was in love. She told me that she was very much in-love with her one-month boyfriend--a guy named Jay. She met him in one of the parties we were both supposed to attend, had I not been sent abroad. She was full of praises for this guy, whom I learned was a Systems Engineer and also from Davao like me.I only had the opportunity to meet him after two weeks because according to Joan, he was sent to do some trouble-shooting in one of their branches up Norte. He came by our office that afternoon to fetch Joan and she introduced us to each other. How i wish that time never happened!

Yes , Joe... Jay or Jason as I once called him, was my first love and childhood sweetheart back in Davao. He was my neighbor for 10 years until we moved here in Manila. We were both taken aback upon recognizing one another but i recovered first and acted as if I never met him before. I did that because I didn't want Joan to feel awkward, though I know she saw my startled expression. Jay took my cue and greeted me as if I was a complete stranger. But to avert potential disaster I did not go with them to watch a movie as we had planned. Instead, I feigned a headache.

From then on, I started avoiding Joan. One time , she confronted me with my apparent coldness. I didn't want to hurt her with the truth so I just told her I was very busy and teased her that I didn't want to act as their chaperone. But Joan "solved" my problem by making sure that whenever we went out, Mark, Jay's bestfriend, accompanied us. This added to my problems because it seemed that Mark made it his responsibility to take care of me and act as my permanent e*c*rt. He also started courting me. I told him I didn't want a commitment and I just want us to be friends. He started asking me about Jay, what I think of him, or his relationship with Joan. I asked him why the sudden interrogation and he said Jay confided to him about our past.

During Jay's company anniversary party, I found out the reason why he told Mark about us. Joan couldn't attend to the party because she had to go home to their province. So she asked me to stand in for her. Although reluctant I agreed. Jay insisted in taking me home afterwards. When we reached my home, he asked if he could talk to me in private. I invited him to come in. He told me straight that he was jealous of Mark and that he still loves me, more than he loves Joan. This angered me because all the while Joan was sincere with her feelings towards him, he was just stringing her along. He really did love Joan but when he saw me, he said his old feelings returned. I told him with finality that what happened between us was in the past.But I also love Joan and I don't want to betray her.

From then on, I completely avoided Joan, Jay and Mark. I started going out with some officemates and made friends with them. After a couple of months, Joan did not come to work for weeks. Worried that something must have happened to her, I went to her house. There I found Joan crying and looking miserable. I felt guilty because I thought jay told her about us. It was much worse that that. She told me that Jay had leukemia and had only a few months to live. I cried with her, my heart was aching for Jay. SHe asked me to convince Jay that it would be best if she went home with him to Davao and take care of him.

So I went to Jays house. I conveyed to him what Joan wanted me to tell him. Jay told me that he planned to go home to Davao, but not with Joan. He asked me right there and then to marry him and spend his last days together. That was what had been dreading (and at the same time wanting to hear) ever since. It tore my heart to say no, to him, though deep in my heart I wanted to shout YES! He told me he was giving me that right if I was just going true to myself. No matter what my decision will be, Joan called and asked what Jay said.But it appeared Jay already left for Davao.

Joe, what am I to do? Joan is asking me to accompany her to Davao and look for Jay. I can't tell the truth because it's just going to devastate her. Jay keeps calling and asking me to come over. His proposal is still open. Sometimes, I want to run back to the States and forgot about the whole thing but I know that it will be a cowardly thing to do. PLease help me before it's too late.

Sincerely,
Tess


Dear Tess,

Running away would sometimes be the most convenient way to get out of a mess but that doesn't change anything and makes problems even more complicated. This is the time when you have to courageously face and straighten your entangled emotions.

There would seem to be no winners in this game but the truth shall be the final judge and set all of you free once and for all. Love can end in tragedy or victory and for some the end means agonizing defeat and relentless pain. This is the lesson that love teaches us. There is no certainty in this world and we should cherish what we have now for tomorrow they may be there no more.

Jay may be rude in deciding to admit the real score but believes in fighting for what he feels is right for him.I would also rather honestly have it that way than live life with Joan and pretend in lies and deceit.

Nobody wants to get hurt. All of you met in circumstances that have to put to the test your convictions. Love and value for your friendship. You cannot deny what your heart cries and longs for.

If you leave you will be haunted by the truth that Jay loves you more than Joan. It will be even more difficult because you know you feel the same way for him. If youstay and choose to be with him you stand to lose a friend who might feel that she was stabbed at the back by someone who was like her sister to her, someone she trusted.

Tess, this be a difficult decision but one you have to make with your eyes wide open. You would wish you'd never have to choose and see how much pain love can bring but you know you have to, even if it was the last thing you had to do. In times like these, there is always a little consolation in knowing that relationships worth keeping and fighting for are theones built on the foundations of sacrifice and pain.

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Dear Joe,

Call me Eli. I met Tammy in August 1995. She was a freshman psychology student, while I was a senior engineering student. She was one of the applicants in an organization I belonged to. She's very cute and exuberant, is enthusiastic, and has a spunky attitude.

I got to know her when she interviewed me the next month. At first she asked the required questions. I answered them in a mechanical manner. Then she playfully asked who my crush in the organization was. I said she's an applicant.

She suddenly turned red and when she egged me to be more precise, I said I couldn't. She then asked about my lovelife. Basically they were emotionally painful experiences. She listened very intently. After while , It was my turn to ask about her. She said she had boyfriends in high school but considers them just puppy loves.

She was a good conversationalist and we talked for about two hours. Tammy and I really enjoyed each other's company. One time we watched a school play. It was already dark when the play ended. While we were walking outside under the light of the moon and stars I suddenly held her hands. She was not surprised. She simply looked at me and pressed my hands. My heart leapt with joy at that moment.

We went steady; each day spent with her was filled with joy and affection. She told me our relationship was very different from previous ones and she loved me very much.

First week of February 1996, she asked me to accompany her to a hospital to visit Rene, one of her "puppy loves." He was also a freshman in our school. He was very sick and doctors said he had about a year to live. A week later Tammy broke up with me. He had asked her to come back to him if only for his remaining days.

I gave in and conceded. I was very impressed with Tammy beneath her seemingly childish ways was a generous and compassionate heart. Seven months passed and Tammy avoided my calls. She was now a sophomore. Finally in September we met again. It was our first anniversary. She said Rene's health was greatly improving. While she was talking she avoided looking at me and said she really loved Rene. I was hurt. i told her she was only conditioning her mind to prove to Rene that her intentions were true and not borne out of pity. She walked away.

Last December I chanced upon Tammy at an annual Christmas event at the campus. She was at the exact position where she and I watched the same event the previous year. Only this time it was someone else who was holding her hands--Rene. I was taken aback and almost cried. It was the saddext December of my life.

It is now 1997 and my love for Tammy still burns. I sometomes ask myself why everytime I fall in love it fails, and why there are so few girls like Tammy in this world.

There are things I'm planning to do. I'm hoping that everything will turn out right.

Sincerely,
Eli

Dear Eli,

The only way to find out if someone really loves you is to set her free and let her choose her own way. It takes trust and unconditional love to do this. you have given her the freedom to explore her feelings for Rene. That, I believe, is one of love's ultimate expressions-- to be able to deny ourselves of our own happiness and sacrifice our feelings for someone we truly care about.

Hard as it is, you simply have to accept the fact that Tammy loves Rene more than she loves you. Believe me, it's better she left you rather than kept you hanging on.

If you keep on bitterly grieving over what could have been then you can never be better. For what you nurture in your heart is a disease that will slowly eat you up and leave you hopelessly alone in the end. Remember, losing Tammy doesn't mean you have failed; it simply means she wasn't meant for you. There may only be one Tammy in this world but you'll find someone better if you'd only open your heart.

We should only cry over the past once, then that's enough. Life can go on even without Tammy. Don't look back for there are no more feelings to hold on. Look ahead and you'll see the many great opportunities that await those who give themselves the chance to live and love again.

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ang ganda po!!!but i  too shy to shre my problemmm pf course its about love!!!!!haaayyy s sad!!!!hndi ko na alm kung pano ko mpipigiln kung pede lang iiyak ko na lahat :embarass:kakainis namn pag ganito :head: