LeTTiNg Go

[HaTeR_oTzYoO]

Albert Einstein says…



Sometimes in our relentless effort to find the person
we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the
people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful
things and simply because we allow ourselves to be
enslaved by our own selfish concerns.



Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words,
for you will find rewarding happiness not with man you
love but the man who loves you more. The best lovers
are those capable of loving from a distance far enough
to allow the person to grow but never too far to feel
the love within your being.



To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop
loving, it only means that you allow that person to
find his own happiness without expecting him to come
back. Letting go is not just setting the other person
free, but is also setting yourself free from all the
bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.




Do not let the bitterness rare you away your strength
and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to
dishearten you, but rather let yourself grow with
wisdom in bearing it. You may find peace in loving
someone from a distance not expecting something in
return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but
can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all
survive with just beautiful memories of the past, but
real peace and happiness come only with open
acceptance of what reality is today.



There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon
someone so nice and beautiful and we just find
ourselves so intensely attracted to that person. This
feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and
eventually consumes our thoughts and actions. The sad
part of it is when we begin to realize that this
person feels nothing more for us than just a
friendship. We start our desperate attempt to get
noticed and be closer, but in the end our efforts are
in vain and we end up being sorry for ourselves.



You don't have to forget someone you love. What you
need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality
without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe
me, you would be better off giving that dedication and
love to someone more deserving. Don't let your heart
run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for
itself.



Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well. Always remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow. If
you lose love that doesn't mean you failed in love.
Cry if you have to, but make it sure that tears wash
away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has
left with you. Let go of yesterday and love will find
its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it
may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.



There are two ways to live your life. One is as though
nothing is a miracle. The other is though everything
is a miracle.