im in a situation where i cant get out? help...

[nizha_fe]

about a year ago i had met someone he was single at the time and so was i. we hit it off and made a really good connection. then a few months later he had found out that he had a baby girl out there then he took the paternaty test and found out that he really had a daughter....

and now were still seeing each other. but the thing is that we both know the situation and we went over it and talked about it but yet were still seeing each other.

as of this moment im starting to believe that we are just friends with benefits but yet hes still willing to see me..

what can it really mean...does he believe sneaking out and having s*x with me behind the babys mama excites him more...

like what does he really see in me as....

but the thing is i dont want to make the situation that way cause the way we talk we do seem like we have a good connection and we seem to realize just being friends for the time being is okay...

but i honestly dont know wut to do.

[d_palapuz]

There's too much to ask, but I'll say this to you..
Right now, he's seeing you as you said, he found out there's a baby that he's responsible of, but since he brokeup with the mother of the child, he's main focus is YOU..
I know why you feel like you're stuck in a very complicated situation, it's because you're feeling a little guilty for what he's doing..
To break it down, try narrowing the problem and put yourself in his shoe..
Think about it, they broke-up but there's a baby, even though the baby is his responsibility that doesn't mean he can't see or be with you..
If the mother of the child and him won't make it out in a relationship for the sake of their baby, then it means he really loves you and you should stick with him..

It's up to you to make the decision, I'm just here to help to narrow down the situation to help you decide or better yet, explain the situation itself..