FOR SOMEONE WHO LOSE LOVE...THIS IS FOR YOU

[ms vulnerable]

Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing
someone she loves so much will still wish against
all odds to have that love back again. But,
sometimes a love lost is a love gone forever. No
amount of hope can bring to life a relationship
that just died a natural death. Set yourself free. Let
your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it
may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still will not
rain forever.

One day the pouring will stop and there will be
plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of
these is where you will build your nest and start
over again. It's never too late. Remember, you
may find love and lose it but, "WHEN LOVE DIES,
YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT".

Remember that you cannot be a redeemer all your
life. The best way to weigh a relationship is out in
the test of fire. You
cannot be a sooner of your mistake forever.
Remember, we all fail and make wrong decisions
but our blunders are meant not to bury us deep in
misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life.
Loving is always a learning process.

With love, we learn how to care and sacrifice. We
learn to share and reach out. We learn to be
unselfish and give more than we can. And when
everything doesn't end well, we learn how it fells
fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on.
This is where we learn that "Life doesn't end
where our heartaches begin".

THERE IS NO FUTURE IN A RELATIONSHIP OF
LIES AND SELFISHNESS.
It's true, there's life in love. But, there can still be
life even after losing love if you leave the past
behind and let your heart heal and give you the
chance to find yourself again. The success of a
relationship lies not only in the beauty
of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a
choice not on impulse but a decision based on a
healthy balance of mind and
heart. Let us always remember that "HAPPINESS
IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A
MATTER OF CHOICE".

There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone so nice and beautiful and we just
find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon becomes part of our
everyday lives and eventually consumes our
thoughts and actions. The sad part of its when we
begin to realize that this person feels nothing
more for us than friendship. We start our
desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer
but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded and
we end up being sorry for ourselves.

"YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE
YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS
HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY
WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR
YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BETTER OFF
GIVING THAT THE DEDICATION AND LOVE TO
SOMEONE MORE DESERVING". Don't let
your heart run your life, be sensible and let your
mind speak for itself.

Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as
well. Always remember that if you lose someone
today, it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow.

"IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN'T MEAN
THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU
HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR
WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE
BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU
WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE
WILL FIND ITS BACK TO YOU". And when it
does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and
last a lifetime.

A woman/man on the rebound could easily fall for
sweeping emotions and be made to falsely
believe that he/she finally stumbled upon the right
man/woman when what she just found is only
someone to cover up for the love she/he lost. A
woman/man who makes promises with words and
not with actions may never live up to fulfill them.

"IT'S TRUE THAT LOVE CAN WAIT FOREVER
BUT IT IS CRAZY TO STUBBORNLY HOPE FOR
SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T EVEN CARE OR
UNDERSTAND HOW WE FEEL".